Category: Personal

Just me and inside me and about me. Me Me Me. Personal blogs, processing, feelings and thoughts; full spectrum; superficial to deep

You Are What You Repeatedly Do

Imagine you get amnesia… Who will you be? “Beep.Beep.Beep.Beep”…your ears woke up first. “Beep.Beep.Beep.Beep” Already, in that moment; who are you?That repetitive tone you hear; what is it causing or triggering in your body? You don’t know your name, where you live, who you love or who loves you… “Beep.Beep.Beep.Beep”… What are you feeling? Are […]

No Longer A Valid Human…

Yet the most human they’ve ever been. One day. You’re 72 (or 65 or 76 or 90); and suddenly you’re not a valid human anymore. Your children decide you can’t drive anymore… Even though you’ve always driven like a jerk, now it’s because you’re ‘old’. By the time you have appeased a few small changes they […]

Massage Diary Debates

(it’s not really clear, as this was written in the in betweens of different days’ massage memoirs. The stories bodies have told, the stories of a human’s unfold…) Too many entries have initials and details that I don’t feel right or necessary; another example of an instance where lying is just easier.(Then authors come to […]

(non) Advice from an Avoidant

Venting Voice, be warned! Someone sent me a video a while ago about me being an ‘avoidant’ and I made the mistake of letting it play in the back ground while I go pee!! By the time I finished my morning routine and sat down with my 3rd coffee; this video played on repeat for […]

Ekename not Nickname

I’m starting to wonder if I, perhaps, have a thing for/ about names …? Unclear up until recently; the evidence has been there all along. Skip the childhood and Human Resource references, and I can still find quite a few instances where the significance of names; or at least my curiosities thereon, have made itself […]

The Cult of Cutting Off Your Parents

There’s a fashionable kind of stupidity making the rounds lately…a new-ish badge of honour: “I’ve cut my parents off” Cutting off your parents isn’t healing… It’s trendy cowardice. It’s said with the same smug satisfaction people used to reserve for quitting sugar, their new kale-diet, going vegan or ‘no longer chasing’. “Look how evolved I […]